Lately in life I have started to encounter a few fake people. Now, I am one of those people who normally gets along with everyone. I am a smiling, upbeat,bubbly, happy, person. It is rare that I come across someone who does not like me. Yes, I do come across them and normally it is because they think I am either fake or to nice. That is their issue and not mine. It seems lately though, I have been around a few people that do not like me.
I am not going name any names or where these people are that I am around because I do not want to give to much away but I do encounter them a lot. At first I thought they liked me but now I am pretty sure they do not. I keep catching them saying rude comments about me, little snippy comments that are geared to me and jabs directed at me. I am trying to be the bigger person and not say a word. Sometimes it is hard but so far I have done that.Since losing weight, they have even said comments about that. One even went as far as saying that I was more than likely just wearing spanx instead of actually losing weight. I have busted my ass to lose 28 pounds. I am not eating a shit ton of food that I would love to eat because I want to lose weight. I work my ass off every day at the gym. I do not need other women bringing me down.
My big issue here is that if you do not like me, then do not talk to me. Just ignore me. Do not go out of your way to say Hi to me. Do not fake nice to me. Just be honest and I will feel better about the situation. I also do not understand why grown women feel the need to bring other grown women down instead of building them up and encouraging them? I find that being positive and ignoring the situation is the best thing to do but it does not stop the problem or make the people stop. I just hope one day these women learn to grow up and accept that no one is perfect. Everyone has flaws and that instead of being a bully, they could use their time and efforts to empower others instead of bring them down.