Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Love Is Not Perfect

First off, let me say I love my husband. He is my everything but sometimes love and relationships are not easy. No relationship is perfect. Some people like to paint these pictures of these perfect little marriages. Well let me tell you, those are fake. Behind closed doors the truth is there. I love Chris with everything in me but sometimes I wanna just scream at him. Everyone has those days. I would never trade my life with anyone or not get married when I did. I love everything about what I have done with my life. I just get frustrated with my husband sometimes. 

This is coming from a really dumb place really. I was trying to cook the other day and Chris kept trying to help. Most women would be like HEY that is awesome. Not me. It drives me insane. He never helps much with cooking after I finally learned how to cook and now that I can cook, I don't want the help. Our kitchen is not huge and really, anyone in there helping just gets in my way. I kept telling him to MOVE and GET OUT THE WAY but in a nice way. Finally I just got frustrated and was mean about it. I know he meant well but I didn't need the help. This is the second time this has happened in a few weeks. Hopefully he took the hint to stay out of my kitchen! 

It is always little things that can set you off and when you live with someone, it is going to be something small that will do it. I would never change my husband. I love him with everything in me and he is my world. I just want to make the point that no relationship is perfect. We have been married almost 4 years and we are still growing and learning every day. We will continue to through our entire marriage and relationship. If we did not have little spats, it would be un-healthy. You have to have these to learn and grow in your relationship.



9 comments:

  1. Hahaha Tyson and I have been together 12 years and you know by my Twitter I'm still slamming doors in anger around here some days. Nothing perfect about my relationship except that it's perfect for me. :)

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  2. i cannot go more than a week without causing some sort of fight with jose, but that is what keeps it exciting :)

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  3. totally agree. no one has a perfect relationship. i get annoyed with michael ALL the time. maybe it's dumb but sometimes it's nice to get out frustrations.

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  4. Billy annoys the shit outta me all the time. But it's okay. I put up with it. That's real love is learning to see past the annoying.

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  5. Oh lord I think this is so normal! Just hand him a beer and/or slam a box of tampons on the counter and he will probably walk away lol

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  7. soo, when i yelled at trav to pick up his dirty socks i meant it in a nice way right? ;)

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  8. Oh girl, no marriage, or any relationship for that matter, is perfect. And anyone who says otherwise is lying. Relationships are work, and sometimes I think there is even more pressure/work for marriages. I find myself getting aggravated with Steve over stupid stuff. I think as long as you do t lose sight of what is truly important, all is well!

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  9. You are right about everything here! Any person who tries to convince people via their social media platforms that their relationship is all roses and daisies is foolish. Mine and Nate's biggest fight when we first got married was over whether the bedroom light was gonna stay on or off..true story! HA!

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