This is coming from a really dumb place really. I was trying to cook the other day and Chris kept trying to help. Most women would be like HEY that is awesome. Not me. It drives me insane. He never helps much with cooking after I finally learned how to cook and now that I can cook, I don't want the help. Our kitchen is not huge and really, anyone in there helping just gets in my way. I kept telling him to MOVE and GET OUT THE WAY but in a nice way. Finally I just got frustrated and was mean about it. I know he meant well but I didn't need the help. This is the second time this has happened in a few weeks. Hopefully he took the hint to stay out of my kitchen!
It is always little things that can set you off and when you live with someone, it is going to be something small that will do it. I would never change my husband. I love him with everything in me and he is my world. I just want to make the point that no relationship is perfect. We have been married almost 4 years and we are still growing and learning every day. We will continue to through our entire marriage and relationship. If we did not have little spats, it would be un-healthy. You have to have these to learn and grow in your relationship.